5 Tips to Increase Your Optimism
Positive thinking alone may not ensure success, but it’s an important start. If you don’t believe in yourself, you’ll have a hard time persevering against the obstacles and setbacks you’re likely to encounter.
Here are a few tips for maintaining the right attitude in the face of adversity:
- Tell yourself you can change. Think of how you’ve changed throughout your life—not physically, but emotionally. You’re probably a different person today than you were five years ago, so don’t assume you can’t evolve further.
- Use positive language. Banish words and phrases like “impossible” and “I can’t” from your vocabulary. Replace them with words that emphasize strength and success: “challenging” instead of “impossible,” and “I must” for “I can’t.”
- Create the right environment. Listen to music that uplifts you. Watch inspirational movies and shows. You don’t have to devote yourself to a life of “Tomorrow” and Rocky, but don’t spend too much time on downbeat material. Mix it up, with a leaning toward the positive.
- Appreciate your life. Focusing on what you don’t have can crowd out your appreciation for what you already possess. Take some time every so often to enjoy what you’ve already achieved with your life. Think about what you did to get where you are, and use that as reminder of your capabilities.
- Let go of mistakes. You’re bound to fail at some things; don’t obsess over them. Learn what you can and move on instead of beating yourself up over and over for them.
Three Things to Do Next
1. Comment: How do you stay positive when things are gloomy? Any tips for helping others see the positive side of things?
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3. Tell yourself what you are thankful for: Often times we don’t see how blessed we are until we take the time to focus on the good.
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